Minimalism is an ongoing process. I realize there are so many things that we collect and barely use. I think having to lug all my stuff around in a van and a few boxes has really been eye opening. A lot of what we think we need, needs an inventory check. Honestly. Looking around and determining what items you actually use or bring you value, brings us to this want to clean out stuff but also be mindful about it process.

What I mean is that instead of dumping a big pile off somewhere — being intentional about selling, giving, or repurposing items is better. The clothing industry is built around selling clothes. That’s part of why we have so many fast fashion brands — they tailor to low cost, on trend products that temporarily create a satisfied customer. The problem is just like sugar in food — folks end up wanting more in a never ending cycle. It depletes your wallet and self-worth at the same time. The on-trend outfit falls apart and you feel the need to keep up the stylish appearance. Social media harps on clothing hauls and having new clothes as worthiness.

I’m not saying that new clothes are bad. Instead, what I mean is that we are dealing with masked bigger issues. People are equating self worth with others perception of themselves. This heightens a constant struggle to be good enough. When already doubting, you see imagery that tries to convince you that items will make you happy.

You see, when you take away the stuff — you’re left to wrestle with your thoughts. You have to face what clothing or collections of items serves as distraction from. Here are a few things I’ve found that help with the process.

1. Separate what you use and what you don’t. This sounds so simple but having a collection of items that you don’t use right in front of you can help to put things into perspective. Seeing a pile or box allows me to say: What can I get rid of that I do not use?

2. Make the transition a gradual process. Getting rid of stuff takes time. A lot more time than I thought. This process is still in the works for myself. Funny enough, packing a suitcase when not even traveling has helped. The process helps with making yourself distinctly choose each item. That discernment often helps in narrowing down what to keep.

3. Figure out why. A lot of items we keep hold reminders of memories and moments. While those moments are precious, keeping everything that you have no use for isn’t always practical or the least minimal. If you can determine why you want to go minimal — you’ll be able to convince yourself to let go of excess things.

4. Create a capsule wardrobe. How often have you gone to your closet and pondered on what to wear? Creating seasonal capsule wardrobes of multipurpose clothing can keep your closet smaller and tidy while also sticking to minimalism. I recommend choosing pieces that you like with quality, timeless style, and versatility. You can also sell items on sites like Facebook Marketplace, Craigslist, or Poshmark.

5. Clean out your pantry and storage areas. Going through things one area at a time over time has helped so much. It can be so overwhelming and even emotional to clean out all your stuff. Keep what you use, has purpose, and brings you joy. If it doesn’t get used all the time or make you smile, sell or give it.

6. Trade. If you want to purchase something, get rid of something in exchange. This is a great way to keep yourself in check because you will have to contemplate why you want said item and be willing to part with a lesser used item. If your purchase is essential, by all means don’t feel obligated. I’m not saying to get rid of everything; what I mean is that thinking about purchases can help you to maintain or get to minimalism. Also, consider borrowing or trading infrequently used items. A roommate or neighbor may have a lawn mower for instance that you can borrow or pay a small use for. You can find a way to make things work with minimalism if you want to. The extent to which you are minimal is a personal decision that is ultimately up to you.

7. Plan. Figuring out a timeframe and small actionable steps over time can make the minimalism process so much more practical and attainable. Slow and steady will allow you to realistically figure out the right day to day items for you to keep.

   I hope these tips help you out in your minimalism lifestyle. If you found this article useful and have any questions, I’m happy to help. Feel free to reach out!